My Friend, My Friend as performed by Phish

My Friend, My Friend was played at 8.79% of live Phish shows.
It was last played September 19, 2025, which was 2 shows ago.
There have been 1,493 shows since the live debut.
“My Friend, My Friend” has been played approximately once every 11.4 shows.
Since its debut, “My Friend, My Friend” has been played, on average, once every 8.2 shows.
It was played 183 time(s) at the following show(s):

Date Venue Gap Set Song Before Song After Notes
1992-01-14 The Band House ø 1 Weigh MMGAMOIO
1992-03-06 The Music Hall 589 2 *** Poor Heart Debut.
1992-03-11 The Colonial Theatre 2 1 Suzy > Paul and Silas
1992-03-19 Palace Theatre 5 2 Suzy > Coil
1992-03-21 Chestnut Cabaret 2 2 'A' Train > Poor Heart
1992-03-26 Ziggy's 4 2 TMWSIY > Lizards
1992-03-31 The Blue Note 4 2 Dinner and a Movie > MSO
1992-04-04 Balch Fieldhouse 3 2 Glide > Coil
1992-04-07 Fine Arts Auditorium, Fort L... 3 2 YEM Lizards
1992-04-19 The Catalyst 8 1 Paul and Silas Reba
1992-04-25 Campus Rec Center 5 1 Suzy > Paul and Silas
1992-05-01 The Rave 3 1 Suzy > Poor Heart
1992-05-07 The Agora Theatre 5 1 Buried Alive > Foam
1992-05-14 The Capitol Theatre 5 1 Poor Heart > Bouncin'
1992-07-15 Trax 18 1 Foam Uncle Pen
1992-08-17 The Coach House 19 1 Foam Bouncin'
1992-11-22 Bailey Hall 14 2 Axilla MSO
1992-12-01 Livingston Gymnasium, Deniso... 6 2 CDT ATR
1992-12-06 The Vic Theatre 5 1 Fee > MSO
1992-12-11 Michigan Theater 4 1 Sparkle > Memories
1992-12-29 Palace Theatre 4 1 Llama Divided
1993-02-03 Portland Expo 3 1 IDK Poor Heart Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-02-06 Roseland Ballroom 3 1 Wilson Maze Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-02-09 Auditorium Theatre 2 1 Poor Heart > Rift Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-02-12 Mid-Hudson Civic Center 3 2 *** ATR Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-02-17 Benton Convention Center 3 2 Glide BBJ Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-02-19 Roxy Theatre 2 1 Sparkle Poor Heart Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-02-23 The Edge Night Club 4 1 Golgi > Rift Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-03-02 Tipitina's 4 2 *** Uncle Pen Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-03-08 Sweeney Center 4 2 BBJ -> Kung Began with Trey on acoustic guitar.
1993-03-12 Dobson Arena 2 2 Bag Sparkle Beginning featured Trey on acous... (Careful with That Axe, Eugene quote)
1993-03-16 Celebrity Theatre 3 2 *** Curtain Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-03-18 The Palace 2 2 *** Poor Heart Beginning featured Trey on acous... (The Little Drummer Boy jam)
1993-03-21 Ventura Theatre 2 2 Loving Cup Rift Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-03-27 Warfield Theatre 5 1 Reba Uncle Pen Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-03-30 Hilton Ballroom 2 1 Golgi Llama Beginning featured Trey on acous... (Theme from Sesame Street tease)
1993-04-01 Roseland Theater 3 1 Coil Paul and Silas Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-04-03 86th Street Music Hall 2 1 Coil Reba Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-04-09 State Theatre 2 2 Mound YEM Beginning featured Trey on acous... (Killer Joe tease)
1993-04-10 Aragon Ballroom 1 1 Coil Uncle Pen Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-04-13 Memorial Hall 2 2 *** Rift Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-04-17 Michigan Theater 3 1 Glide ATR Beginning featured Trey on acous... (Ob-La-Di, Ob-La-Da jam)
1993-04-20 Newport Music Hall 2 2 TMWSIY Llama Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-04-23 Cotterell Court, Reid Athlet... 3 1 Fluffhead > Divided Beginning featured Trey on acous... (Baby Elephant Walk tease)
1993-04-27 Concert Hall 3 2 Golgi > ATR Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-04-29 Le Spectrum 1 e *** Sweet Adeline Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-05-01 Tower Theatre 2 2 Fluffhead > Coil Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-05-05 Palace Theatre 3 2 Runaway Jim -> -> Manteca Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-05-05 Palace Theatre 0 2 Manteca -> Poor Heart
1993-05-08 Field House, UNH 3 1 Glide > Reba Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-07-16 The Mann 4 1 Golgi Ya Mar Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-07-23 Jones Beach 5 2 Faht -> Uncle Pen Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-07-28 Grady Cole Center 4 2 Mound Hood Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-07-30 The Veranda at Starwood 2 2 Fluffhead > Golgi Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-08-07 Darien Lake 5 2 Sparkle > McGrupp Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-08-09 Concert Hall 2 2 Tela > MMGAMOIO Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-08-11 Eastbrook Theatre 1 1 Ginseng > Mango Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-08-16 American Theater 5 2 It's Ice Poor Heart Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-08-20 Red Rocks Amphitheatre 2 2 Coil > CDT Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-08-25 Paramount Theatre 3 2 Mound Paul and Silas Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1993-12-28 Bender Arena 3 2 YEM -> Lizards Beginning featured Trey on acous...
1994-04-10 Alumni Arena, SUNY Buffalo 9 2 *** > Ya Mar Beginning featured Trey on acous... (Rockin' Back Inside My Heart jam with lyrics)
1994-04-18 Bob Carpenter Center 7 1 Julius > Rift
1994-04-24 Grady Cole Center 5 1 *** Ya Mar
1994-05-06 Tower Theater 9 1 Poor Heart > > Ya Mar (Rockin' Back Inside My Heart jam with lyrics)
1994-05-13 Hayden Square 5 1 If I Could > > Slave
1994-05-19 Silva Concert Hall, Hult Cen... 4 1 Llama Poor Heart (Born on the Bayou tease)
1994-05-27 Warfield Theatre 7 2 Peaches > > Reba
1994-06-14 Civic Center 7 1 Fee -> Uncle Pen
1994-06-21 Cincinnati Music Hall 5 2 DwD > SOAMelt (Rock and Roll, Hoochie Koo jam)
1994-07-03 The Ballpark 10 1 *** Poor Heart
1994-07-10 SPAC 5 1 If I Could > Julius (Purple Haze tease)
1994-10-07 Stabler Arena, Lehigh Univer... 5 1 *** Julius
1994-10-12 Orpheum Theatre 4 1 *** > Reba A cappella lyrics at start.
1994-10-18 Vanderbilt University Memori... 5 1 Simple > -> IDK Extra lyrics from Mike.
1994-10-23 Band Shell, 4 1 CDT -> Sparkle
1994-10-29 Spartanburg Memorial Auditorium 5 1 *** Sparkle
1994-11-14 DeVos Hall 7 1 *** SOAMule
1994-11-26 The Orpheum Theatre 10 1 *** > Possum
1994-11-30 Campus Rec Center 2 1 Poor Heart > > Reba No "Myfe" ending.
1995-06-09 Red Rocks Amphitheatre 17 1 *** Divided
1995-06-15 Lakewood Amphitheatre 4 1 *** > Sparkle
1995-06-26 SPAC 9 1 *** Don't You Want To Go? (Pomp and Circumstance March No. 1 tease)
1995-07-03 Summerstage at Sugarbush North 6 1 *** > Poor Heart Trey using his microphone stand ...
1995-09-30 Shoreline Amphitheatre 4 1 *** CTB
1995-10-20 Five Seasons Arena 13 1 *** Ya Mar
1995-10-24 Dane County Coliseum 3 1 *** Paul and Silas
1995-11-12 O'Connell Center, University... 9 1 *** Llama
1995-11-21 Lawrence Joel Veterans Memor... 6 1 Guyute -> Dog Faced Boy No "Myfe" ending.
1995-12-11 Cumberland County Civic Center 14 1 *** > Ha Ha Ha No "Myfe" ending.
1995-12-17 Olympic Center 5 1 *** > Poor Heart
1995-12-29 The Centrum 2 1 *** > Poor Heart
1996-07-15 La Marna 14 1 *** PYITE
1996-08-10 Alpine Valley 14 1 *** Poor Heart
1996-10-19 Marine Midland Arena 9 1 *** Rift
1996-11-03 O'Connell Center, University... 10 1 *** Runaway Jim Karl Perazzo on percussion.
1996-11-27 Key Arena 15 1 Julius > Ya Mar
1996-12-04 Sports Arena 5 1 *** CDT
1997-02-25 Incognito 15 2 Fee -> DwD Aborted quickly and scrapped.
1997-02-26 Longhorn 1 1 Llama Hood
1997-12-05 CSU Convocation Center 57 1 Runaway Jim -> Ginseng
1998-07-31 Polaris Amphitheater 35 1 *** > Ya Mar
1998-11-15 Murphy Center, Middle Tennes... 29 1 *** Ghost
1999-07-25 Deer Creek 32 1 Meat -> My Left Toe No "Myfe" ending.
1999-07-31 Naeba Ski Resort 4 1 *** > Golgi
2000-07-12 Deer Creek 71 1 *** Curtain With Unfinished.
2000-09-09 Pepsi Arena 5 1 Possum -> Jam No "Myfe" ending.
2000-09-27 Fiddler's Green 12 1 Sample Beauty of My Dreams No "Myfe" ending.
2003-01-02 Hampton Coliseum 9 2 Simple -> LxL
2003-07-30 Tweeter Center at the Waterf... 32 1 *** Lonesome Cowboy Bill
2009-03-08 Hampton Coliseum 32 1 Bag > SOAMule
2009-06-05 Nikon at Jones Beach Theater 4 1 IDK Ya Mar
2009-08-13 Darien Lake 20 1 Wolfman's Possum
2009-11-27 Times Union Center 13 2 *** > Golden Age
2010-06-15 nTelos Pavilion 14 1 Moma > Cold Water
2010-07-04 Verizon Wireless Amphitheatr... 14 1 Heavy Things > > Lawn Boy
2010-08-12 Verizon Wireless Music Center 6 2 Gin Buffalo Bill
2010-08-18 Nikon at Jones Beach Theater 5 2 46 Days -> Hood
2010-10-15 North Charleston Coliseum 5 2 Roses > > My Problem Right There
2010-10-23 Mullins Center, University o... 5 2 DwD > -> Caspian No "Myfe" ending.
2010-12-30 MSG 8 2 Theme -> > Axilla No "Myfe" ending.
2011-05-27 Bethel Woods 3 1 Tweezer > Poor Heart
2011-06-18 Walnut Creek 16 2 Piper > > KDF No "Myfe" ending.
2011-07-01 Watkins Glen 2 1 Life on Mars? Wolfman's
2011-08-05 The Gorge 3 1 Nellie Kane > Cavern
2011-12-28 MSG 13 2 Tweezer > -> R&R No "Myfe" ending.
2012-06-16 Bader Field 8 1 Halley's > Wolfman's
2012-07-08 SPAC 15 2 KDF -> > Swept Away No "Myfe" ending.
2012-08-17 Bill Graham Civic Auditorium 2 1 Roses -> Slave
2012-08-29 Oklahoma City Zoo Amphitheatre 8 2 BOAF > > R&R No "Myfe" ending.
2012-12-30 MSG 6 1 Horn > > Antelope No "Myfe" ending.
2013-07-05 SPAC 3 1 Army of One > > Cities No "Myfe" ending.
2013-07-20 Northerly Island 10 1 Destiny > KDF
2013-08-05 Hollywood Bowl 10 2 DwD > > Hood
2013-10-22 BlueCross Arena 7 1 Timber Ho > Halfway to the Moon
2014-07-05 SPAC 18 1 Crowd Control > > SOAMule
2014-07-25 PNC Music Pavilion 11 1 Tube > Winterqueen
2014-10-22 Santa Barbara Bowl 14 1 Winterqueen > SOAMelt
2014-11-01 MGM Grand 7 1 Frankie Says > Roses
2015-07-25 The Forum 9 2 Tweezer > > Roggae No "Myfe" ending.
2015-08-02 Tuscaloosa Amphitheater 5 1 Roggae 46 Days (The Very Long Fuse quote)
2016-06-26 Klipsch Music Center 27 1 *** KDF
2016-07-06 Cross Insurance Arena 6 1 Billy Breathes > Heavy Things
2016-07-10 Lakeview Amphitheater 3 1 Destiny > > Mango No "Myfe" ending.
2016-10-18 Ascend Amphitheater 16 2 Fuego > Samson and Delilah
2016-12-30 MSG 12 1 Things People Do > Wilson No "Myfe" ending.
2017-07-14 Huntington Bank Pavilion at ... 5 2 Fuego > > Your Pet Cat
2017-07-25 MSG 8 1 Lawn Boy > > Stash No "Myfe" ending.
2017-12-31 MSG 16 1 Suzy > Fluffhead
2018-07-20 The Gorge 3 2 CDT > > Fuego No "Myfe" ending.
2018-09-02 Dick's 18 1 Keeping It Real > Horn No "Myfe" ending.
2018-10-24 Ascend Amphitheater 7 1 Waste > Maze
2019-06-28 BB&T Pavilion 26 1 Strawberry Letter 23 > Halfway to the Moon
2019-07-13 Alpine Valley 10 1 FYF The Final Hurrah
2019-09-01 Dick's 4 1 Taste > > Twenty Years Later No "Myfe" ending.
2019-12-06 North Charleston Coliseum 6 1 WACTOOB > > About to Run No "Myfe" ending.
2019-12-29 MSG 4 1 Fuego > > BOAF No "Myfe" ending.
2021-08-01 Ameris Bank Amphitheatre 10 1 Reba 555
2021-08-29 The Gorge 13 1 BOTT > Rift No "Myfe" ending.
2021-10-22 Ak-Chin Pavilion 11 1 Soul Planet > > Bouncin' No "Myfe" ending.
2022-02-27 Moon Palace 12 1 If I Could > > Clear Your Mind No "Myfe" ending.
2022-05-31 Credit One Stadium 8 1 Steam > Sparkle No "Myfe" ending.
2022-07-22 Bethel Woods 10 1 Lawn Boy > > Guelah
2022-08-03 Pine Knob Music Theatre 9 1 Bouncin' > Bowie No "Myfe" ending.
2023-02-23 Moon Palace 16 1 BOTT -> Sand
2023-04-14 Climate Pledge Arena 4 1 Steam > > WotC No "Myfe" ending.
2023-07-14 Ameris Bank Amphitheatre 10 2 ...And Flew Away > First Tube No "Myfe" ending.
2023-07-30 MSG 12 1 Bag -> -> Gin No "Myfe" ending.
2023-10-11 Ervin J. Nutter Center, Wrig... 15 1 Steam > > Crazy Sometimes No "Myfe" ending.
2023-12-29 MSG 5 2 WTU? -> -> Sand No "Myfe" ending.
2024-04-18 Sphere 7 2 Tweezer -> > Mike's No "Myfe" ending. (Egg in a Hole quote)
2024-07-26 Alpine Valley 9 1 The Well -> Brian and Robert No "Myfe" ending.
2024-08-09 Bethel Woods 10 1 Cavern Bug No "Myfe" ending. (Fuego tease)
2024-08-16 The Woodlands 4 2 *** > NMINML No "Myfe" ending. (Moby Dick tease)
2024-09-01 Dick's 6 1 Moma > Tube No "Myfe" ending.
2024-10-27 MVP Arena 3 1 Access Me MSO No "Myfe" ending.
2024-12-31 MSG 4 2 Sigma Oasis > > Sand No "Myfe" ending. (Set Your Soul Free and Get Ready teases )
2025-02-01 Moon Palace 4 1 Golden Age *** No "Myfe" ending.
2025-04-19 Climate Pledge Arena 2 e Sleeping Monkey *** No "Myfe" ending.
2025-06-22 SNHU Arena 9 1 Pebbles and Marbles -> Egg in a Hole No "Myfe" ending.
2025-07-05 Folsom Field 6 2 Fuego -> -> Fuego No "Myfe" ending.
2025-07-15 The Mann 5 2 Sand Boogie On
2025-07-26 Broadview Stage at SPAC 8 1 Evolve > NMINML (Walk This Way tease)
2025-09-19 Hampton Coliseum 6 1 46 Days > Rift

"My Friend, My Friend" was teased at the following shows

Show Date Artist Song (Tease Type) Venue
1993-03-18 Phish Poor Heart (Quote) The Palace, Hollywood, CA, USA
1993-04-10 Phish David Bowie (Tease) Aragon Ballroom, Chicago, IL, USA
2013-08-05 Phish Harry Hood (Quote) Hollywood Bowl, Hollywood, CA, USA
2025-06-22 Phish Egg in a Hole (Quote) SNHU Arena, Manchester, NH, USA
2025-07-05 Phish Fuego (Quote) Folsom Field, Boulder, CO, USA
2025-07-15 Phish Carini (Quote) TD Pavilion at the Mann, Philadelphia, PA, USA

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