So I got to look both ways at a show now to be sure that my boss doesn't end up seeing the "real me".

Nobody wants this. I'm with Bertoletdown.

Re: 90's vs. current. IMO - The difference between the free spirited gatherings of the 60's, 70's 80's 90's and 00's is respect. in the 60's/70's everyone respected everyone else from the git go. True communial gatherings. One cause, one purpose. That has slowly deteriated to where we are today. It's still a great community, it still has lots of like minded people who will assist one another but...there seems to be a respect problem with a portion of the crowd. The problem is that they don't even know what the word means.

Can you video tape at a show and post someone doing something they shouldn't? Sure can, it's a free country. Should you show a stranger at a Phish show more respect then that? Your answer to that question will let you know what era you're from. Even if your 15 years old, if you get this concept then your "old school" in your ways.