Thank you. Thank you for bringing the awfulness of the outside world to my one respite from it. I feel awful for anyone who has a bad time at a show, regardless of where they come from or look like. I think on the whole, the "scene" supports anyone and everyone who wants to enjoy the awesomeness that is Phish. But just as in the outside world, there are total dicks in our scene as well. I've had plenty of run ins with not cool people over the years. To expect that people are going turn in to some sort of ethics police or that there aren't the same assholes in the Phish community that there are in the world at large is naive and foolish. I resent being lectured to because you feel bad.