As a big fan of 8/22 and the Drive-In Jam, I was happy to hear that was the unanimous choice for show of the year.

I would probably put Atlanta 8/1 a little higher, if only for attendance bias and the Tweezer. 7/31 is a better show overall, and you got that part right.

Sorry, I can't let this post go unanswered...

"I always feel as if I somehow listen to different shows than everyone?"

Well, considering you said this later in your post...

"Oswego (Phish's #1 festival)"

...you may be right.